I agree with this. His inconsistencies and immaturities certainly made the FO hesitate and it doesn't appear they pushed as hard as they could have for a long term extension - and rightfully so. As someone who came from money, he had no reason to "accept" even a fair offer either.
I don't blame them for taking it year by year to see how this would playout. Recognizing he's a unique talent, you have to think they were hoping he'd figure it out and become the backbone of the core. That seems to have happened, as there's a good probability he's an elite hitter for the next 5-6 years. Unfortunately, the timing sucks as Ohtani and Soto have changed the market.
I suspect (hope?) they are having very serious conversations with Vlad right now to gauge how realistic is will be to extend him. If they aren't close, he needs to be moved. If they are close, then lets get it done. I do hate the idea of heading into the season without this resolved. I hope we aren't going to repeat what the Angels did with Ohtani.