SUre they shouldn't swing at bad pitches on purpose, but he wasn't calling bad pitches strikes. He was calling borderline pitches strikes. When it is 2 strikes, you have to expand the zone as a hitter anyway.
All the Jays did all game was take a borderline pitch, and then show the ump up after he called it a strike. I mean, what do you think the ump will do? Admit he made a mistake? Of course not. He's going to keep calling it, and if he's a prick, he might hold a grudge for the player showing him up. The Jays are guilty of this all the time, especially Bautista.
Until baseball changes the rules, you can't win by showing the umpire up. They run the game just as much as the players some times. it sucks, but until they get robo umps to call balls and strikes, that's what we have to deal with as fans.
The Jays had 14 innings to score more runs. 14! They didn't lose because of the umpires.