Back when I was in my early teens my town didn't have a little league team but we did have a fairly well funded "Rec Center" league. It was a building that was basically a private YMCA on steroids. My coach the two years I played (12 and 13 years old) told us to go out there and have fun and he and the other coaches who were volunteers taught us the fundamentals of the game and how to get better through patience and practice. I remember Chuck had three rules: 1) if you step out of the box while swinging it was 10 pushups, 2) if you let a ball go through your legs, 10 pushups, and 3) if you want to fight a teammate you both have to carry a 5 gallon bucket filled with sand around the field and then you can fight afterwards. In my opinion youth sports shouldn't be about winning it should be about developing people. Less than 1% of the population will be professional players so why act like actually winning a regional baseball tournament when you're 13 actually matters?
We were a very good team both years I played and the second season we won the league championship, but I still remember a game where Chuck lost his cool on an umpire (volunteer dad asked before the game) calling balls and strikes and after the game he took the field to apologize to everyone for his behavior. Unless you're on a high school team youth sports should be about learning, getting better, having fun, learning teamwork and how to be a part of a team. Just my two cents.