Well Jim then there are three other dumbf***s who think just like you that the world is a s***** teenage TV drama. It isn't.
There are no crazy women, or crazy men for that matter, other than those who have a diagnosed mental illness, addiction or PTSD from war, an accident or being raped as a kid or something. And those people need to be dealt with by the appropriate medical professionals. Other than that there is no one I have met that I'd consider crazy. Outgoing, high-energy and gregarious, sure. Stupid, yup. Stubborn, quick to anger, self-centered, sure. And if I have a negative or unfortunate interaction with someone, obviously they're going to have negative reactions to that, as will I. That doesn't make them crazy.
As far as the f***ing is concerned, this is a very stupid generalization. It's all about sexual compatibility and in my experience sexual compatibility has some but not full correlation to personality. I've had bad sexual experiences too and it had nothing to do with the boldness of her personality, we just didn't like the same things.
If you lay there like a dead fish so the chick has to use you like a dildo and get herself off, yeah, eventually she's going to get sick of that and react negatively. And then you interpret that as "crazy". Meanwhile a woman with a lower libido might be able to accept your lack of sexual prowess and just lay there and cuddle and you interpret that as "not crazy" but also not so good in bed.
If you interpret all your good lays as from women who are crazy, then it is YOU with the defect, not 50% of the human population.