I would invite you to look at it from a different perspecive. Forget about pinning anything on anyone. That's not my purpose. If I did it, it was only to serve a larger good and I apologize for it. I'm not interested in that at all. What I want, quite sincerely, is for things to get better and I do think that at the moment, it's probably best for other mods to mediate between you two. Don't think of it as tracing all problems back to you two. I shouldn't have generalized that way and again I'm sorry. Maybe think of it more as other mods coming between the two of you and (hopefully) planting a seed of positivity between the two of you that will extend out to the rest of the board. It's not necessarily THE solution, it's merely a place to start.