The fact that two teammates(1 former, 1 current) have publicly apologized to her makes think they aren't surprised by the behaviour. I don't think he deserves a suspension, but if he gets one...oh well.
I grew up loving hearing the stories of athletes and womanizing. I got to witness it as my friend was a ball boy who was instructed every game to give notes from Jesse Barfield to young girls in the crowd (with instructions of where to meet him). I loved that story...even laughed it off when one of the girls from my high school (16 at the time) said that he sent her a note. Now I just wonder how many others were underage.
In the end what's the worst that happens about all this? Athletes, politicians and actors are forced to actually show some restraint.