I would say that Winker making obscene gestures to children and getting into verbal altercations with multiple fans is worse than Straw jawing with one fan, but I can understand if you don't feel the same.
I don't know if you misread what I said or don't know what instigation means, but I don't believe it's the same as actually getting into a physical altercation. I don't know how someone could arrive at that conclusion.
That being said, a player roaming around the field telling at fans and egging them on is the exactly the type of thing that leads to physical altercations between players and fans. One thrown water bottle or something and it could have easily gotten out of control. That place was ready to explode. Winker needs to be better. That was disgraceful.