Nah man. I was sharing advise because it’s really sad people can get duped. It’s not not just international. Haven’t you read the domestic scams sometimes? Match.com and that sort of thing. Like I’ve read about women giving men 100’s of thousands of dollars, and Vice versa.
I’ve never been scammed, no. It does happen where you’ll text with with someone for a week and then they’ll be like “I need money for something” and you just block it.
Truthfully, unlike most here, I became a nerd only in adulthood. I always dated the hottest girl in school kind of thing. While other people have essentially settled since they’ve been in junior high, I always got to pick from the best.
Now I’m a 40+ guy that has no business getting a smoking hot 20-something and even if I did, I couldn’t keep up with the lifestyle, bars etc. so the whole thing is a calculated decision. Make fun of me all you want, but compare some pics with what you guys have at home and you’d understand