I think it’s how you lose that hits harder. Blue Jays losing because the Yankees are a good team at home and couldn’t match their offense acceptable. Lose because your stalwart defense faltered multiple times. Manager made questionable pitching decisions and you blow a 5 run lead and lose for the first time all year. It leaves a lasting impression.
Your up 6-1 in a series clincher. We all thought we were winning yesterday.