1. The Jays could have done a ton of s*** that off-season that did not involve trading prospects. The Angels were dumping Ervin Santana and Dan Haren's contracts for nothing that off-season. The Jays could have taken Santana's contract for nothing and paid him $13m in 2013 (better than trading for Dickey). Instead they were passing the f***ing hat around for donations a year later to sign him after coming off a better season rather than buying low on him the year before. They could have signed Bartolo Colon coming off his suspension. He signed for peanuts with the A's. They could have taken Haren's contract (though he was probably a poor fit for the RC). I could go on. I believe he almost traded for Jake Peavy in the exact same scenario I mentioned, but Peavy ended up re-signing with the White Sox. So clearly he had that idea but chose to go the other route, which was stupid.
2. Are you kidding me? Yan Gomes was an 8 WAR player combined the past two seasons (injured this season). He would have still been on a pre-arbitration salary if not for the Indians extending him. That amount of excess value would have been insanely valuable. The fact that AA had him parading around as a 3B in the minors when he's a top level defensive catcher/framer is a strike against AA as well for not realizing what he had. TDA could have been traded for someone better if you were afraid of his injury history. Why a 38-year old knuckleballer with no where to go but down?
3. Of course not all the pitching prospects or prospects in general were going to pan out. No one has said he had to keep all of them. But trading them for 30+ year old vets on free agent contracts when the team was coming off 73 wins made absolutely no sense at all. If you enter 2013 with all your prospects and a rotation of Santana, Colon, Alvarez, Happ, Morrow, Romero, etc, then yeah, that's probably a .500 team at best, but a .500 team with tons of flexibility and assets.
4. The gay slur was way overblown. yes, it was stupid of Escobar to do, but no one remembered that afterwards. It was a non-issue. He apologized. The team thinking that trading him made any sort of goodwill to the fan base is so naive that it's mind boggling. No one cared. Move on and take advantage of the asset.