You really didn't need to elaborate. I said that I would trust the stats over whatever anecdotal conclusions you drew up based on what you think you saw and I'm still going to do that.
You say that Tapia is a boneheaded base-runner that is constantly getting picked off and running into outs. That he's done one of those things almost every time you watch.
So let's look at the numbers.
Raimel Tapia had 533 plate appearances in 2021. Based on Baseball Reference's baserunning leaderboards, he got picked off 3 times and thrown out on the base paths 2 times all year long. He had a 77% stolen-base rate, for 20 SB and 6 CS.
You keep comparing him to Villar, so let's look at Villar's numbers.
Jonathan Villar had 505 plate appearances in 2021. He was picked off 7 times and made 5 outs on the base paths. His success rate on stolen base attempts was 67%, for 14 SB and 7 CS. He was considerably worse than Tapia in every number.
It's entirely possible that 2021 was an anomaly and super-scout Grant77 was just remembering what he's seen in past years. So let's expand the sample size.
Tapia made 5 "bone-headed" outs (picked off or thrown out while advancing) in 2021, 1 such out in 2020, 8 outs in 2019, and 0 in 2018 (small PA sample).
Compare that to Villar who made 12 dumb outs in 2021, 7 in 2020, 12 in 2019 and 9 in 2018.
Tapia's made a dumb out 14 times in the last four years. Villar has done it 40 times.
To further put those numbers in perspective, the league leaders in those types of outs each year include people like Jose Altuve (13 outs in 2021), Francisco Lindor (7 outs in 2020), Tommy Pham (16 outs in 2019) and Javier Baez (12 outs in 2018).
Tapia also had an XBT% (the percentage of times a runner takes more than one base on a single and more than two bases on a double) of 44 in 2021. That was plainly in the middle of the league and pretty much exactly in line with his career numbers.
Compare that to a guy like Grichuk, who was in the bottom 15% of the league in 2021 with an XBT% of just 31.
Tapia is a very fast runner that has been squarely average or above average in smartness/dumbness stats for the past several years. So yeah... on a guy who ran into an out twice and got picked off three times over the course of an entire season, you made the claim that he makes a boneheaded base-running play almost every time you watch. That's pretty much a perfect case study of why nobody should care about what some guy on a forum thinks he's seen with his own eyes.