I got news for you. Your kids have already been around plenty of people who masturbate steadily, and very likely did it in the public also, they just didn't get caught. You make it sound like Reese is a rapist. Have you never had sex with someone in your car before? Never had that lovely tap on the window from a cop? I'm sure Reese tried to be discreet about it by parking away from everyone. Bottom line is that he f***ed up and got caught. It's not a major crime so it shouldn't be difficult for anyone to move on from this.