You really need to give up. The argument was about whether the joke was racist or not, which it wasn't. Comparing and joking about someone's massive amount of chins to the number of Chins in a Chinese phone book is not a racist joke. Not sure where in that joke there is prejudice, hate, or inferring Chinese people are inferior relative to another race - which is, in essence, what racism is.
You're typical of the young generation that is growing up in this country. Whiny little entitled bitches.
/rant