Also I should apologize for my behaviour on the thread that got me banned as JugglingPitches.
I am very touchy about my parenting. I lost my mom when my wife was pregnant, and my daughter was born two weeks after she passed away (her first grandchild). Before she died I promised her she wouldn't really die because I was going to be a great dad by following her example. So, I've made it my focus on life to be the best dad I can be, at the expense of other areas of my life sometimes. I get very testy when people judge anything having to do with my parenting as a result, hence my reaction to that thread...which at the time it was all still very raw.