Yet, it's something I believe in, with the consideration of handicapped people(my moms worked at McCordic school for near 10 years as a volunteer), everyone on here has slapped it out, I see it all the time, I didn't get why you singled my post out, when I wasn't even calling someone a retard, I used it as an adjective concerning the thought process? That's why I was kinda floored... if you catch my drift? I've searched... and EVERYONE uses it. Yes I use it, so does many... good luck on that, mate. As I've said, I worked an entire summer with a buddy's brother(he became our brother), it'll take time.